Bisexuality: The Myths and Medical Truths

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This informative video that I found talks about the myths and medical truths about bisexuality, sexual identity, orientation, sexual concerns and sexual functioning.

Have you ever asked yourself about your sexuality, having the confusion of your sexuality? I found an article the fit’s your curiosity and what to do about it!

While you’re exploring your sexuality, it helps to think of it all on a spectrum. On one end, you have homosexual, or gay, and on the other, heterosexual, or straight. But what if you find yourself attracted to the cute guy next door – and the cute chick up the block?

What does this all mean? Are you bisexual?

Here are some ways to figure it out.

There are two types of people who are attracted to both sexes: bisexual and bi-curious. People who are bi-curious are those who may be ready to explore their sexuality with a same sex partner. Bisexual people are those who know that they dig men AND women. As sexuality occurs along a spectrum, there are theories that we are all “a little bisexual.”

Here are some clues you may be bisexual:

*You realize that you’re not just crushing on people of the same sex, your feelings are deeper than a “bromance” or a “girl crush.”

*You have sexual fantasies that you’d really like to make a reality about someone who is the same sex.

*You know it in your gut – your hips may lie, but your gut, well, your gut never leads you wrong.

*You look for QUALITIES in a partner, rather than people to date.

If you find yourself nodding at the above questions, you’re probably pretty confused by it. That’s okay. Most people whose sexual preference is not clearly on one side of the spectrum or the other can be very bewildered by it all.

Okay, so I’m pretty sure I’m bisexual (or at least, bi-curious). Now what?

Well, first, take a deep breath and remind yourself that it’s NORMAL to feel a lot of conflicting emotions about your sexuality. If you feel that you are bisexual, it’s time to explore your sexual boundaries with men and women. Here are some tips:

*Find some online groups for local GLBT groups (youth or adult, depending on your age) that may meet in your area. It’s there that you can find some people who are going through the same things.

*Experiment. The one sure-fire way to find out if you’re attracted to people of both sexes is to experience what it’s like to be with them. No, not like a threesome, but independently.

*While you experiment, do so safely. Even same-sex couples run the risks for STDs and other medical problems.

*Do not try and experiment with a good friend unless he or she is into it. Sex has ruined a lot of perfectly good friendships, and you want people in your corner.

*Talk about your feelings with someone you trust. If that means calling a GLBT hot-line to discuss your feelings, so be it. Sometimes advice from strangers is a lot easier to manage than advice from people you know.

*Remember that you are normal. You are perfect just as you are. There is NO shame in being bisexual, bi-curious, gay, straight, transgender – no shame at all. Hold your head high.

Source: http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/137766/how_to_know_whether_youre

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8 Comments

  1. MetteC5 says:

    I so agree, Aima267!

    And MrSivram28, why the hell are you watching vids like this if you’re so close-minded???!!!

  2. MetteC5 says:

    I agree! That was a part of the vid that made me cringe!!!

  3. MetteC5 says:

    Oh, I felt so relieved watching this vid! I completely identify with what you say about bi women – and all this time (I’m 42), I thought that I was alone, bizarre, etc.
    Thank you!

  4. serbiangirl29 says:

    I don’t think it was appropriate for the one woman to talk about her poly-amorous lifestyle on a segment about bisexuality.. it seems like they were making an underlying link that bisexuals are poly-amorous when in reality it is merely a stereotype.

  5. Tatsuyoujo says:

    We are bisexual and we need health! *waves bi pride flag*

  6. Tatsuyoujo says:

    STFU, idiot!

  7. Aima267 says:

    what does marriage have to do with it? I would expect you would become more at risk, when inside of marriage you ‘trust’ faithfulness rather than condom/other preventative methods. Look at adultery levels in the world.
    The only system with half a hope of functioning is asking people to be Safe and keep things consensual. What business is it of anyone’s outside of that, unless they are being excessively public when it isn’t needed).

  8. MrSivram28 says:

    Homosexuals and bisexuals would not have to worry about these things if they get married and stick with one partner of the opposite sex.

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